Saturday, December 8, 2012

Divorce
70% of the people who get divorce 2 years later regret their divorce
There are six stations of divorce

  1. emotional divorce- this involves a loss of trust, respect, and affection for each other. They stop supporting each other and find ways to hurt, frustrate or to lower the self-esteem the other person  
  2. legal divorce- this is when the court brings the marriage to an end. This can be a relief from the legal responsibilities of the marriage and the right to remarry.
  3. economic divorce- this involves settlement of the property, this is not an easy matter. This can also be very hurtful or painful. 
  4. co-parent divorce- this is ones who have children, which is about 2/3 of all couples. Its figuring out who will have custody, visitation rights and continuing parental responsibilities. This can be one of the most tragic part of divorce. 
  5. community divorce- when each parent leaves one community of friends and relationships and goes to another one. 
  6. psychic divorce- the central separation that occurs, the individual must accept the disruption of the relationship and regain a sense of being an individual 

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